who are you to judge?

Again, the topic is not that far with the previous post. It's about who are you to judge others. Today, I got few similar broadcast messages that said about things that we should not do as believers. They said we spend more time reading useless magazine than reading the bible or we spend more money to buy things than giving money to church. Overall, it is so offense, made me really insecure, not because I felt bad that I did most of it, but how if the message is read by others?

It reminded me about something in my life. About someone that I loved so much changed so bad because of it. What is the cause? It's because there are believers out there who offense Him, saying that he should repent and so on. I mean, who has the right to judge others. How can you make other believe if you offense them, feels like they are the one who knows the best and do all the right things, but the fact is nonsense!

Sorry for being to the point, but this is what I'm longing for, and seeing people have been doing that really made me really sad. As a believer, we know what we have to do, to love, to care, to give the RIGHT example, the truth. And that's why also people like to comparing us, creating bad image and bitterness everywhere.

I, too, don't want to judge you guys, but I have to start from myself not to judge people, not considering myself as the person who knows it all. Humbled.