It's 8 days before I step into 22 and one thing that have been asked lately is about date
For real, I've never have a date in my life, in this almost 22 years! =]
but... beside that, I felt so grateful for not having any date until now
I don't need to experience bad date because of me being unprepared
so, still I feel grateful for everything
It's been almost 22 years I heard dozens of love stories, from my male and female friends.
weeks before they become girl/boyfriend, the world seems so beautiful, one thing that they only care of is their special one.
every weakness and bad influence can be exception, his/her minds stucked in the ~lala world
that's when the story hasn't even begun
when they have committed, they move to the theme park, having fun and doesn't care about their surrounding, because they don't want to waste their money they have paid for the theme park.
not long after that, they decided to go out from the theme park, but still, they can talk about the enjoyment the felt before
but nothing last forever, they have nothing left to talk about
what make it worse, they don't want to go to the theme park again because they think it's boring
and so on and so on..... they have problem for being together without any excitement
and you know what happen next
and more and more stories about premature love and how it ended
I don't want to talk about love, how you should start and undergo it, you can see it in a book, a lot of it.
I have many things that came up to my minds lately about this love thing
"When most of your attentions focused on someone you attracted to means
you are not ready to love, because when you're ready, your focus is all about God, not about human"
Genesis 2:18-23
The LORD God said, "It is not good for the man to be alone. I will make a helper suitable for him."
Now the LORD God had formed out of the ground
all the beasts of the field and all the birds of the air. He brought them to the man to see what he would name them; and whatever the man called each living creature, that was its
name.
So the man gave names to all the livestock, the birds of the air and all the beasts of the field. But for Adam no suitable helper was found.
So the LORD God caused the man to fall into a deep sleep; and while he was sleeping, he took one of the man's ribs and closed up the place with flesh.
Then the LORD God made a woman from the rib he had taken out of the man, and
he brought her to the man.
The man said, "This is now bone of my bones and flesh of my flesh; she shall be called 'woman,' for she was taken out of man."
Adam never ask for Eve when God gave to him. God knows that Adam NEED a mate for him to be paired, and again when we focus in ourself, we won't get the best in the most right time. We may get one, but is it the best for us? Then what happen if it's not? You have seen the story up there. I can't say that if you have already got boy/girlfriend, you should break with them, because it's not from God. God has plan for everything, so don't worry about it, start focusing on Him, what He wants to do in your relationship. And for you who haven't got any mate, don't worry, God has saved one for you and that's the best for you!
When you focus on Him, you'll know what you have to do as a person and what you need in your partner. For gentlemen, hang on! For ladies, be patient! =]
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