I lose so that I can win

There are surely so many types of people in this world

Even I'm still learning to know more about it

Simply there are 4 types of characteristic, which are

choleric

likes to order food while everybody is complaining about their stomach

phlegmatic

likes to eat and serve alone

Melancholic

tend to be sad after finished eating in an expensive all-you-can-eat restaurant

Sanguine

love his own world, even in a restaurant --''

Well, I'm not talking about those characteristic this time (*wasting time posting pictures)

I'm kind of talking about humility

yes, what's the relationship then?

Like what I have mentioned before, there are so many types of people

and the kind of people that I recently met are those who are debatable or arguable

well, it's good sometimes to meet them

we can get more informations and more knowledges about almost anything

but sometimes, we can compare them to wikipedia, yes it is

WHY?

Because no matter how false the information, the lack of citation and so many other things

YOU CAN'T CHANGE IT

they are the sole source for most people who don't want to search for more reliable information

imagine people like that.....

You have tried your best to convince him that you know and even you have experienced the things that you explained

but still, he doesn't want to know

eventhough he has the wrong information

he doesn't care and stand still on his perception

I used to join debate competition in my high school years

in the competition, whether we are pro or contra

there is one rule that prohibit us to relate the argument that we give to religion

"every concept of the world has flaw, but His words are solid, like His presence"

So, how do we handle these guys?

there is only one word, HUMILITY

When there's still will inside of you that says," I cannot lose to a like of him "

and trying to win the argue, you're hiding the proud inside of you

because when you humble yourself, you can lose and sometimes you can win

but when you lost, you didn't really lose

you win..... against you pride

2 philippians 2:3

Do nothing from selfishness or conceit, but in humility counts other better than yourselves